Resources
Here is a list of resources I trust and use regularly, sorted by topic. If you have a suggestion for me to add, or a request for a topic you want to learn about, please get in touch.
Here is a list of resources I trust and use regularly, sorted by topic. If you have a suggestion for me to add, or a request for a topic you want to learn about, please get in touch.
I add these as I find them and use them, and updated as I use them in my writing and personal life. I haven't read/watched/listened to everything on every page so can't vouch for everything! Please let me know if any links are out of date or if any resource here is inappropriate, pathologising or ableist so I can review and potentially remove it.
Free Resources from SomatiKink
Resources made by me to be used in conjunction with posts or workshops (all signposted).

From Elsewhere on the Internet
All resources here are free, but if you explore around the websites listed you may find paid content also.
Somatics and the Nervous System




A selection of "havening technique" somatic exercises
Linda Thai is who I trained with and she is super. She has some free somatic resources here.


Neurodiversity


I highly recommend "Brain Club" - it's in the evening Eastern US time, but all past clubs are available below...

Trauma

A playlist by Linda Thai on generational trauma

Kink

This is a curated directory of scientific journal articles on kink and BDSM, hosted on Zotero

Sex and Relationships


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